One might wonder even when India is progressing, globalization is in the air, why Indians are still stuck to the concept of arranged marriages. While you may call them orthodox, conformist or traditional frogs who just cannot come out of their ponds and see the world, in reality it’s just the opposite. Yes, Indians are […]

One might wonder even when India is progressing, globalization is in the air, why Indians are still stuck to the concept of arranged marriages. While you may call them orthodox, conformist or traditional frogs who just cannot come out of their ponds and see the world, in reality it’s just the opposite. Yes, Indians are not idiots to follow the pattern of arranged marriages but smart-ass to trail it. Read on to know how …

Even now when a girl or a boy declares that they are in love and want to tie a knot with the boy or a girl of their preference, eyebrows are raised, “n” number of questions are asked and all of a sudden they are treated  as if they are some criminal. The reason? The very idea of “Love Marriage.”

It’s not that people in India are traditional, biased or highly prejudiced to neglect the idea of marrying of one’s own choice. However, how can they allow you to do it when they know the concept of “Arranged marriages” has drastic benefits against its competitor. Yes, Indians are way better calculator and they know arranged marriage is always a better deal.

Arranged Marriages: The Win-Win Situation

First and foremost, marriages arranged by parents and families are not all based on the whims of the young couple. The young raging hormones have no role to play here. So, there is no impulsive marriages and thereby no dreadful divorces. This is the main reason, why statistics show the divorce rate of 1.1% in India and nearly 50% in western countries like America. Arranged marriages definitely last longer

Arranged marriages are more stable. When the marriages are arranged, it is not just a union of the perspective bride and groom but the tie-up of two families. While the girl’s looks are important her character is even more significant as she is being judged not only as a perspective bride but a perspective daughter-in-law.  Here, the pair is agreed upon by either of the family. So, even if in later stages, there arises any sort of problem, the families become the support system. The couple can rely on the two families, making arranged marriages definitely more stable than the marriages made by choice.

If you think couple in arranged marriages are incompatible whereas couples in marriages made by choice is more compatible, then think again. Couple in arranged marriages would be more compatible because they are of the same culture, practice same religion and have many things in common. There would be no question of distinctive beliefs contradicting or clashes in the form of religion/culture/language differences.

Financial security

Although, you might say money doesn’t matter but when it comes to marriage and sustaining it, financial security plays an important role. While your lover may or may not be adequate enough to run the house smoothly post marriage, the groom in arranged marriage would definitely have the potential to take care of all your needs and requirements.

Every family wants their daughter to be settled fairly and no one wants to take any chance. Arranged marriage is a safer bet. Through arranged marriages one can easily hope to achieve all the bliss, post marriage. Besides, in contemporary Indian arranged marriages, the would be couple are also given the liberty as well as freedom to know their partner as much as they can, post the marriage announcement.

On the contrary, love marriage may or may not last but arranged marriages have the potential to last longer. Being highly stable, it can fight against all odds. What’s more, you never hurt the feelings of your elders and have a solid support system from them for time eternal.

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