Hot and handsome yet cool and kind! He’s the ‘purrfect’ guy anyone could ever imagine!
Yes, we all have our secret crushes in college on this one guy who’s the perfect incarnation of Greek God, witty humor and brilliant personality! Of course he belongs to the ‘coolest’ gang, and everyone wants to be friends with him!
So here’s a fact; ‘Love’ happens to be a game of rules! If you manage to play it well, you can definitely turn the tables on him!
Go by the tried and tested ways… and you’ll see things working out your way!
1. Change your look
If he hasn’t noticed you till now.. Try a new look! Well, it’s easy to begin a conversation when you have his eyes completely stuck on you!
Physical attraction to a guy, might not be everything, but it is important. An attractive face could hold a guy’s attention for sometime and you could use that to your advantage.
All guys love to chase a girl and win her! Anything that comes easy ain’t attractive to any guy. Talk to his friends and treat them like they are way more important to you than him!
So now that you have his attention, hang out with him! Well, what’s better than having a frank conversation over a drink.
Have a drink or two, chat and get to know his interests. A guy loves a girl who he can talk to; who responds to what he’s saying and not gab gab gab only about herself!
4. Show some attitude!
Although you are friends with him now, NEVER give him all the attention (No matter how much you really want to!)
There are other guys around you, don’t ignore them! When a guy knows that you’re only interested in talking to him, he’ll assume he’s already won you over! Well, how does that make him think any different about you from the rest of the girls!?
5. Love is Friendship
Well, the strongest foundation of any bond, whether with parents or siblings or spouse, is friendship! Now that he’s your friend, he will eventually tell you his problems, wishes, desires and dreams! So, give him a shoulder when he’s down, try to offer solutions to any problem he discusses, and you’ll find your bond automatically strengthening!
6. Make the first move!
This is probably the toughest one! Times are not changing; they HAVE changed! Confidence is a girl’s most attractive trait to the opposite sex! Now that you are good pals, you could start hinting a bit… use the flirtatious side of you for some joke… blushes ALWAYS work best at hinting!
There’s nothing wrong with approaching the guy yourself to initiate contact. Whether it’s for a movie or a date or just a drive, you should make the first move. Guys appreciate the guts it takes to be the first one to ask!
7. Now that you have him, How to keep him?
And the answer is… do stuff together! Take part in an inter college competition or a play together! Of course he is the coolest guy in class but he might lack company for doing something, could be even a jog or play some sport! That’s the perfect way to get time with him!
The more time you spend with him the more the bonding will grow!
By now he obviously is very fond of you and used to spending time with you! But from time to time, you need to remind him, that you’re not his ‘guy’ pal! Get some romance ticking! And the best ingredient is your ‘adaa’…it’s what is ingrained in us, Indian girls! The Indian ‘adaa’ can never go wrong in keeping a guy head over heels over you!
9. Happy girls are the prettiest girls: Audrey Hepburn
To keep a guy constantly interested in you isn’t easy! After all, he is the “coolest” guy in college and he will always have girls trying to hit on him.. ALL the time!
Don’t succumb to your insecure and possessive side. It’s a sureshot way of losing him to someone else! Always be the happy, cheerful person you truly are and you’ll see that your ‘coolest’ guy will always be by your side!
Well, if you’ve played the game well, you’ve definitely snagged this guy who you had been only dreaming about sometime back! Now you’re spending time with him, sharing feelings, chilling together… well for what you know, you’re dating him!
By: Medha Mukerji
Related articles across the web
Related articles across the web