All excited to become a wife from a girlfriend or fiancee with the guy you have been dating or are engaged to? But, wait a minute – Is your guy ready too? Besides, is he really the right guy to become your better half? Confused? Well, don’t be! Here is a checklist for every Indian girl to know whether he is marriage material or not. The more of these you can check off – the better it is. Here you go –
1. He Knows How To Lift Up Your Spirits
Having a sense of humor is very desirable in a man But is his humor positive enough to transform your pale face into a chirpy one? Or does he only joke about the negative things in you including your bad driving and increasing weight? Girls, a positive mind that knows how to lift up your spirits is the one with whom you can easily sail in the ship called “Marriage!”
2. He Doesn’t Fake Concern
Is he the one who always says, “I’m always there for you!” and is the last person to help you in times of need? Or is he the person who is always there silently and never makes you feel obliged for helping you out.
3. No, He Isn’t Henpecked
He will not just keep nodding “yes” to everything that you have to say. Having his own opinion, he won’t hesitate to disagree with you and share his own ideas/thoughts as well.
4. Does he disagree?
If he has a valid point when he disagrees, he isn’t the wrong guy, but the right one for marriage! Its a great sign that he is principled, which means that he will stick his neck out for you too when required.
5. He accepts you as you are!
He doesn’t tell you to change yourself and to take his lead in all matters. He is accommodating enough and knows that people can be different and yet have interesting and a fulfilling relationship.
6. He is Open Enough to Tell You What He Feels
You don’t have to literally plead him to make him say things. This guy will be audible enough to let you know what he feels. He is also comfortable in sharing things with you! A guy with a high E.Q. (emotional quotient) is definitely right for you.
7. He has his own world besides you…
You might be a part of his life, but he has life beyond you. His career is important to him as well as friends, family, hobbies and sports. This makes him the perfect balanced guy you should be looking forward to marry!
8. He Isn’t Mr. I Know It All!
Often you might come across guys who act/behave/pretend as if they know everything. Such adamant and rigid guys are strictly not advisable. Your guy doesn’t need to be a mathematical genius, but look for enough intelligence that you can respect and admire each other. A guy who is not interested in learning and growing intellectually may not be able to keep up over the long haul.
9. He Knows how to Rise Above Losses and Disappointments
He doesn’t crib about all the negative things that have happened to him all the time. Instead, he admits his shortcomings, plans to overcome them, balances his ego and sails through all the ups and downs in life.
10. He is Childlike Yet Responsible
Yes, if you think you should marry a right man then make sure your guy is emotionally mature. A perfect partner he will be your anchor in all the phases of life in the years to come.
Remember, he too will be watching for the same characteristics in you. To do well in a relationship, learn to be the partner you would like to be.
By: Editorial Team
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